Does Size Matter?

[Lucius]

Sizes, sizes, sizes... Do we undress our characters to impress everyone else involved, including readers, with the sizes of their penises, breasts and buttocks?

Let's starts with cocks. I usually don't dwell on size, but I know that from time to time I slide into the style self-lampooned by Lespion decades ago.

“Ugh! Ugh! Ugh! Ugh! Ugh! Ugh! Ugh! Ugh!” Larra Court grunted in pain as the heavyset thug thrust into her. She struggled in her bonds in a vain attempt to escape, but she was bound too well.

“OHH!” she moaned as the rapist hammered even farther into her already overstretched vagina. As seemed to be the norm in these circumstances her assailant’s sex organ was of heroic proportions and in spite of being raped on numerous occasions, Larra somehow managed to remain virgin tight.

Sometimes the girl just has to really feel !

Breasts I like to describe, but I don't dwell on size other that mentioning whether they're 'big' or 'small', but they aren't likely to be hugely endowed. A modern girl might narrate the size of her cups -- not necessarily DD!

Buttocks are less important for me, I guess. My reader isn't going to encounter immoderately sized glutes.

How do you measure up?

[Vela Nanashi]

So in real life there is such a thing as a too big cock, also such a thing as a too small one, but the latter varies with what else the owner of said cock does, not necessarily with the cock, but with his mind and body What a big cock can give if used carefully is very quickly hitting all the pleasure areas inside and also there is something about fullness, that is why some enjoy something like fisting, I think it triggers some things that you otherwise would normally only get while giving birth, human cocks don't really compete with fist sized things though, and also there is one further factor, the size/tightness/and how stretchy the vagina is, or other place the cock is going, some like the challenge of taking something stupidly big, some women can like their cervix being repeatedly hit by a cock (not too hard though), others just can't, there are also women with certain mental or medical conditions where they would need a tiny cock, as anything bigger will hurt, no matter what they do, and maybe no cock can work without pain.

In my fantasy stories my female characters tend to be enhanced by magic, so they can take a cock with a cock head larger than their head without injury, as they stretch, I do that partially for silliness but also the size difference is interesting, and I can imagine the intensity, and like that kind of thing at least in stories.

For breasts and butts I like a combination that looks good as a whole on the whole body, I do not like tiny or huge breasts or butts relative to body, but I do like curvy also I like enough fat on female characters that when she is not flexing her muscles they don't show, but if she flexes they do show, but not all veiny and stuff, that may sometimes look good on men, but I also like men with some smoothing and less veins.

Also I am silly with the males, sometimes I love the idea of an impractically big cock on a small male, so much so that you know if it is fully erect there is barely any blood anywhere else in his body, and his brain is on emergency life support and not thinking at all, in real life that would not work, the person would faint and fail to operate his cock.

I think this probably makes me a bit boring though, but perhaps not exactly in the common hotspot for porn, but close to it on some axies

[Shocker]

I do not overthink sizes. I write to the aesthetics that I like. Which typically means my female characters are going to have breasts that would fit inside my hands. I'm more likely to have her frame vary, for the same cup size to have a dramatic different perception.

If body parts are getting bigger or smaller in my stories, there is usually a narrative reason for it. In played like a violin, I deliberately made the chests of my two female characters very different as a source for humiliation. I absolutely lave small pert breasts. But If I can use them again a character I'll use it. Same the other way around.

I don't compare dick size in real life, so they are playing less of a role in my stories. But I have used different perception of the same organ, by the owner and the victim.

[Blaster]

Re: "Size" Speaking as a reader, size is only an issue if it enhances the story line or effects the interaction. Such as a girl who had D cups in 10th grade and it became pert of her personality in some relevant way. Otherwise, if any of you hear of someone with three, call me right away and we can drive over together.
As far as penises are concerned, if some discomfort on the part of the victim beyond the rape itself is an issue, an occasional "extra large" works.

[HistBuff]

I remember my very first story on Ravishu where all the rapists had large cocks or huge ones, back when I was specifying bra cup sizes, etc. I then read about how rare anything beyond seven inches really is and began to write stories where the vast majority of male characters are average in size, except for exceptional ones that have nicknames such as The Baobab and bring some alternate reality to my rape scenes, where a glamorous woman has to hold it with both hands while her captors make fun of her; this often happens in an interracial context too.

When a female character is surrounded by a forest of men and subjected to a bukake-style event, I'll write something like "all sizes and descriptions of local men". I have strong fantasies where a movie-star beautiful lady gets subjected to such favours and flavours.

For breasts size, I've always preferred small or average. Two of my favourite characters, Consuelo from The Last Command and Caterina from Mutiny in Léopoldville, are great example of this. Their being slim and having perky breasts is actually part of their glamorous persona. It's only minor characters who are bustier and curvaceous as this type of women don't really appeal to me, and my stories generally are set at a time when the vast majority of people were thin or average in weight. Back in 1950, the average woman stood about 5 feet 2 or 3 and weighed around 135. My glamorous characters are drawn from actresses who were slimmer than average.

Buttocks follow suit as being peachy, taut, pert or "making her look like she's the young sister" or something like that. I have a strong bias toward petite girls.

Size is for the visual appeal of a girl, but emotions are where the true story lies. How do you paint vivid emotions?

[Vile8r]

I used to be a slave to the "size" trend! Thinking that all rapists had to have big ten inch dicks that would just terrorize the victims as they realized that big horse cock was going inside them.
But over the years, my preferences have matured. I believe now it is more what a man can DO with his cock, more than whether he's big as a donkey. If anything, nowadays I focus more on a man's thickness, rather than length.
It can be just as equally terrifying to a victim to know she is going to be fucked by a man who has a dick that is, say 6 or 7 inches, which is a good average size, but the bloody thing is as big around as a beer can! I find THAT more realistic, than writing that all the guys are competing with John Holmes for length.

I read a story once where a lifeguard at an inner city swimming pool is gangraped by a group of black teens. Was a great story until the fucking started and the author wrote that ALL the guys had like 13 and 14 inch dicks. Wrecked the rest of the story for me.

For one thing, it's a real freak of nature, even for black guys, for them ALL to be that big. Out of a group of 100, you might get 2 or 3 that are over 12 inches long. I realize it is JUST FICTION, and you can write whatever the hell you want, but I am a writer who also believes in plausibility. Would a group of 6 young men ALL have 14 inch dicks .... the odds are ... NO! Maybe one of them might, but it's more plausible to say, the rest are like 9 or 10 inches. Also more plausible to say they're all around 9 or 10 inches, but all are quite thick. THAT detail, I'd believe!

[Claire]

I read a story once where a lifeguard at an inner city swimming pool is gangraped by a group of black teens. Was a great story until the fucking started and the author wrote that ALL the guys had like 13 and 14 inch dicks. Wrecked the rest of the story for me.

For one thing, it's a real freak of nature, even for black guys, for them ALL to be that big. Out of a group of 100, you might get 2 or 3 that are over 12 inches long.

So I looked this up because I was curious. I think especially men seem to overestimate how long penises can realistically be and how often that occurs. The best source I found was a 2014 study with the title:

Am I normal? A systematic review and construction of nomograms for flaccid and erect penis length and circumference in up to 15 521 men

They find that the average erect penis is 13.12 centimeters or 5.17 inches long. I think the longest erect penis they had in their study was 21 to 22 centimeters or 8.27 to 8.66 inches. Basically, men with penises longer than 10 or even 12 inches are mythical creatures. If they do exist, then they are freak outliers in the 1 in 1,000,000,000 range, not something that occurs in 1 out of 100 men. That study also finds no racial differences, but acknowledges that past studies did. But these differences are usually much smaller than porn would make you believe. Maybe an average difference of one centimeter (0.39 inches), certainly not several inches.

Basically:
50% of all penises are 5.1 inches long or shorter
90% are 6 inches or shorter
95% are 6.5 inches or shorter
99% are 7.1 inches or shorter

Men with penises longer than 10 inches are so rare - if they exist at all - that you usually won't find any even in a study that includes 10,000+ men.

If you're writing a gangrape scene with five guys with 13 or 14 inch penises, you're no longer writing rape fantasy. You're writing monster porn.

[AdmiralPiet]

Men with penises longer than 10 inches are so rare - if they exist at all - that you usually won't find any even in a study that includes 10,000+ men.

There are some who claim to be over 10", sometimes considerably. But there is not much that is verifiable.

I found a list.
I don't know how they measured it, or if they even measured directly and didn't go by pictures.
But: "Top 20 Male Pornstars With Biggest Dick in Porn 2026" list none over 10".

Also: I looked at a well known german web-shop for love toys: 14" is 35,56cm.
The absolute majority of toys in their "giant dildo" section are shorter.
Even many "Bad Dragon" products max out around that, in the "Extra Large" variant.

[VictimEyes]

1) In Real Life:
A penis can be too large as well as too small. At the end of the day, the dick doesn't make the man good, the man makes the dick good.

2) In literature - "show don't tell". I don't need to read the dimensions of a penis if the composer left evidence that it was large or small.

3) In my 'sickgirl' fantasies, my rapist(s) have a penis that they could use to uproot tree stumps.
If you're gonna be a cat, be a Bengal tiger. If you're gonna be a bear, be a Grizzly.

[Blue]

In my stories, I don't give specific details about the length and thickness of the penis. Instead, I write about a hard cock, a thick cock, a rod, or even a monster cock—without specifying any actual measurements. That way, every reader can picture for themselves just how big and thick the thing is.