RSlice wrote: Wed Aug 13, 2025 7:01 pm
If there happened to be a surge of interest between now and October would it be considered to keep open?
Sure, if the community suddenly proved me wrong then I would rethink my decision. There is one issue though. I told users about this in the one month announcement and that worked. That increased activity quite a bit and made me optimistic when we reached the 3 month evaluation date I had set for myself. And that three month announcement that was so optimistic got barely any comments and was then interpreted as "Ah, the forum is safe now, now we can get back to lurking". Immediately after, the collapse began. Rather than building on the momentum we had, people seemed to take this as "now we don't need to do anything anymore". So there is a danger here that we get back to this very same point every 2 or 3 months. The activity on the forum can not be based on me announcing its closure every few months and then people get into a panic, activity peaks and then everything is reduced to three or four people participating again.
I don't want to force people to participate. What would be the point of that? I want a community where people enjoy reading the stories we have here and then talk about what they read. If people don't have an interest in that, then this is fine. The only thing I'm telling people is this: You can not treat a forum of amateur authors writing erotic fiction like a porn streaming site. Why? Because the difference between pornhub and us is that there is no money in this, neither for the authors of the stories nor whoever runs the plattform. And that should not be that hard to understand. If you judged your average porn streaming site from a community building perspective, then they would have closed long ago. The model that these porn streaming sites operate on is making money either through advertisements or by teasing people with clips of larger content that you are then meant to subscribe to. But since that is not how a forum like ours works, the community treating it like that also doesn't work. And until this community finally understands and internalizes this, every forum like this will keep failing. But instead of coming to terms with that insight, people rationalize there own inactivity by framing the issue as if I had ever said that you are supposed to be here commenting non-stop.
I hope you take what I'm about to say not as a personal attack because that is really not my intention. Take it as something to think about. You posted earlier here that many stories don't speak to you and that you have a kink for home invasion stories of which there aren't many here. Let's say I believed that your own kink is so narrow that home invasion stories exclusively are doing it for you. And I don't believe that because from what I see, the two stories that you did comment on aren't even tagged home invasion. But even if home invasion is the only thing that interests you: There are currently 12 English stories
tagged as home invasion that were not written by you. One of them is Shocker's Fugitives sitting prominently in the Popular Stories board, basically impossible to miss. I don't think you commented on any of them. I also asked people here what kind of contest they would have liked to see. I don't remember a post of you suggesting a home invasion contest and maybe even signaling that you would participate in it. The point is: You will never get plenty of home invasion stories if the home invasion authors don't get the motivation from their readers. When this forum was brand new, I remember you talking to me about authors you missed and you waited for them to find this place rather than to engage with the home invasion stories that were already there. And that is the problem.
So to come back to your original question: Yes, if activity suddenly and persistently increased I might change my mind. But don't be active to save the forum. As much as I can't carry it alone, you can't either. This is not a motivation that will last. Be active to support the home invasion authors that are here and let them know through your feedback that you want more of that stuff. Even from a purely selfish perspective of wanting more home invasion stories, this is the best thing you can do.